Although there are no strict rules as to who should do the asking, the Mormons are very conservative and in general, they expect guys to do the asking. He is controlled by his pediatric physician wife, trying to help others with their illness, and still is with me.
We started dating 16 years ago, and both resigned from the church earlier this year.
Actually, Mormon families are shrinking, just like those outside the Church, but they will always be larger than families outside Mormondom. I psyychopath with what you and so many of the other replies have said: Listen with an open heart and curiosity.