It is much easier for the Holy Ghost to influence good people. If you marry him, you are committing to accepting him without the church and all that this entails.
He would not appreciate my sacrifice of course, because they are often very self-center mind. When he doesn't have his patience he has his family geat seem more and more to have self inflicted issues they gamble, drink and smoke which lead to health issues and bills.
God loves every last one of us, regardless of religious affiliation.