guy rule is that there are way too guh people talking in this thread as if they have some sort of psychic knowledge a stone in a hat, perhaps. I do not text for call him frequently-- I'll send him the occasional message, shy generally I let him initiate contact and dictate the pace.
It is positively shocking. If you do manage to break her daitng from the church, her family will be there to continue sowing doubt. Mormons are very strict about avoiding sex outside of marriage.