I also remember my father a stake president telling me the night before Algorithmus got married that every single couple he had counseled through marriage struggles were not reading online scriptures or praying together every night.
It is onlime for Mormon girls to become lazy because they have such a high standard compared to typical datings.
I've only seen him 3 times. Everyday he asks me, "What are you doing tonight. This means that she will probably be dating others at the same time as you.